In this message we will speak to you of the gifts that these children bring to you. And also we will speak of this year, 2005, as the year in which the people of Planet Earth will awaken fully to the power of the Children. You might call it “the year of the Crystal Child”.
The Changes in 2003/4 Prepared the Way
The changes that you experienced on Planet earth in late 2003 and 2004 prepared the way for the arrival of these powerful children whom we will call the Children of Paradise. They are born fully encoded in their DNA to live on a Paradise Earth. They expect nothing less. You have helped to prepare and create this Paradise for them, and they are here to activate it together with you. It is a joint project between you – the parents and caregivers – and your children.
You, as adults and parents, began the final phase of your Light Work to prepare the path at the Harmonic Concordance in November 2003. Then you anchored the Divine Feminine energy on the planet at the Venus Transits. The powerful Crystal Energies that poured through the three Stargates of 2004, on 8/8, 11/11, and 12/12, were successfully used to lift and anchor the Planet into the Fifth Dimension and to make Multi-Dimensional access a reality for those on the Planet who were ready to move into this way of being. And of course, your children were more than ready.
These shifts also allowed for the return of the Lemurian Paradise Frequency on the Aquamarine Ray. This permitted a level of consciousness so unified and unconditionally loving that a state of joy and balance can now be achieved both in the hearts of people and on the Planet herself.
The Children of Paradise
The Crystal Children born on and after September 2004 carry the vibration of this New Earth or Paradise. They are beings who incarnate with absolutely no contract with the Old Earth energy. Their purpose is to live fully in the New Earth and to carry its energies.
As such, they are the miracle children. They will bring and create miracles in the lives of those all around them. But, most profoundly, they will assist in creating the miracles that you will see on the Planet in the coming year.
Miracles are created from Compassion and Love and Trust.
These powerful children will help to access these places in your hearts
and show you how to use them wisely and justly.
As the month of January unfolds, you will see global compassion in action as people find compassion and love in their hearts and reach out to help those affected by the Tsunami disaster. And that global effort will create a miracle of global love and compassion. And that global love and compassion will be the engine that will drive the creation of the Fifth Dimensional Paradise Earth. People will discover that if they work together from love and compassion, they can perform miracles and build the kind of society they seek. They will become motivated to use that power to make other changes that will lead to balanced and happy living conditions for all on the Planet.
And the Paradise Children will be adding their powerful energies to this emerging creation of Love and Compassion. They may be small children now, but their Soul Energies are powerful and creative, and you will feel their presence more and more.
The Year of the Child: 2005
These powerful children will also ensure that the people of the Planet wake up to the power of their children. 2005 will commence with the global release of a movie called “Indigo”, which will educate millions of people about the reality of the New Children.
This will be the first exposure for many people to the power and magic of the New Children. From this point, it will be up to you as Parents, Caregivers and Lightworkers, to further educate as many people as you can to the reality of what the New Children represent and how they need to be nurtured and loved.
This will represent quite a challenge to many people who will need to release Old Earth paradigms relating to child care, education and health. But this challenge will be met as the Paradise children provide the extra impetus needed to complete the work of transformation begun by the first Indigo wave in the 1970s.
And so, dearest ones, you have arrived at your destination. Together with your miracle children you will build the Paradise of the New Earth in 2005.
The Indigo Adolescent and Teen-Ager
Part I: Role Models and the Existential Crisis
Often, at the age of about fifteen or sixteen, the young Indigo adult may go into a state of depression or neurotic behavior and begin manifesting destructive or self-destructive patterns of behavior. Sometimes these patterns may be only turned inwards, but often they can become focused outwards as well. In this case, the destructive energies are felt and experienced by the family, and the peace and stability of the family is shattered. In extreme cases, Indigos may take their destructive patterns into the larger community and become “problem cases”.
We, the channel and the spirit helpers, see so many parents who are deeply distressed because they cannot cope with this destructive behavior. It may include depression, mental illness, drug abuse, anti-social behavior, rebellion and even violence. Many of you who are gentle and loving parents ask “Why did this happen?” and “What did we do wrong?”. We hope to answer some of your questions here and give you some guidelines as to how to cope with these situations.
The Indigo Soul and the Existential Crisis
Firstly, you as parents need to understand the soul of your Indigo teen-ager. They are advanced beings, and their souls are of a higher vibration and thus closer to the God/Source vibration than yours may be. Because of this, they have an inner sense or knowing when something is not right for them or is not working for them. They might not be able to articulate it fully, but the knowing is there.
This is especially applicable when it comes to rules, regulations, and a way of life that is predetermined by society. The Indigo soul rebels against confinement and containment. It seeks the expression of its essence as a divine spark in freedom and joy. What it gets is often a stifling and boring system called “school” that seeks to quash all individualism and make them conform to some conventional pattern of set behavior and thinking. This is followed by “work’ or “career” in which these patterns are crystallized into forms of survival where certain actions are rewarded by money. Well, this is how your Indigo teen-ager or adolescent sees your life and your system of education and careers.
For yes, indeed, the Indigo adolescent and teen-ager looks at you, his or her parents, and the community, and sees people who have lost their freedom and passion, and are living routine and unexciting lives based on survival through earning money. The Indigo knows this is NOT what he or she came to the planet to do!
Some Indigos have the strength to find their own path into passion and individual expression. But many feel completely trapped by the system and see no future for themselves. This is when the existential crisis begins…
They become depressive and angry and may seek escape in alcohol and drug abuse. Some refuse to attend school or find jobs. It is becoming increasingly common for Indigos to just sit at home. In some cases, this non-participation in society is combined with substance abuse and rebellion, producing a deeply unhappy home situation for all concerned.
Managing the Situation: Honesty and Self-Reflection
The first step in dealing with the problem is to acknowledge that this is not just the case of a “problem child”, but that it is a group or family issue. The dysfunctional teen-ager or adolescent is displaying the symptoms of a problem that is part of the family as a unit.
It is your behavior and choices as adults in the community and within a materialistic culture that has created these deep patterns of illness and unhappiness. Your choices are toxic to your child, and you need to face and acknowledge that. Often your choices may be toxic to yourselves, but you have repressed these reactions in your need to conform and succeed. Your Indigo child will not follow the path of repression and loss of passion as you have, but he or she will mirror it to you in their own dysfunctional patterns.
It is the spiritual “mission” of the Indigo being to function as a “mirror” of the dysfunction in society, so that it may be replaced with something more balanced and healthy. What that may be is yet to emerge. You are still in a period of change and transition, and what you are feeling within your families may be likened to the “birth pains” of another way of life. In the meantime, your child’s message to you is: “your way of life does not work for me; I cannot do this”. How you respond may determine his or her future path in life.
Do not try to force the teen-ager to conform. This will only create more and deeper trauma. The crisis situation has arisen because the teen-ager cannot communicate his or her needs and feelings and has moved into despair.
You are dealing with a Higher Vibrational soul in trauma and despair, as well as a dysfunctional and angry teen-ager. These are the two steps that we recommend you follow to work with this situation if it arises in your family.
1. Deal with the Physical Problems
If the teen-ager has drug dependency issues or is depressive, then these issues must be dealt with through adequate professional counseling and treatment. There are deep-seated issues of unhappiness and inadequacy that need to be addressed and healed.
By the time the Indigo is manifesting the symptoms of the crisis, there is a great deal of pain and damage that can only be healed by adequate professional help. It is important to find the right kind of help. Putting the teen-ager on anti-depressants or Ritalin is not the right kind of help. Medications may be used, but they must be used in tandem with healing and loving counseling.
In many cases, the family will need to be a part of the healing process as well.
Dearest Ones, this will be a new understanding in your future society. That a family will own a “problem” in one of its members as an imbalance in the family. They will seek healing and rebalancing for the entire family and not just the one who is displaying the symptoms of the imbalance.
2. Providing Positive Alternatives and the Role of Trust and Patience
Your role as parents, after you have dealt with the physical manifestations of the crisis, will be to offer positive alternatives and to trust and be patient.
The world is changing rapidly. It is becoming more comfortable for Indigos by the day. Soon, many Indigos will not need to go into crisis to make their points about how they want to live their lives. You, as parents and caregivers and teachers, will allow them to make their own choices. You will learn to empower them to make choices, and to support them in their choices. You will help them to develop their inner passions and fire when you recognize and heal your own inner passions and fire.
But, for now, learn to be gentle with them. And patient. Surrender the situation in your family over to Spirit and the Angels for healing and balancing, and allow the healing process whatever it brings up. You will find that all of you in the family will need to make changes and re-think your lives. But once you have surrendered the situation for healing then trust that it will be healed.
Learn to live with your Indigo from day to day, rather than anguishing about his or her future. Celebrate their healing and their achievements, even if they are small at this time. Celebrate their being – and do not make demands on them that they cannot possibly fulfill.
Understand that if you are as gentle and loving as the situation permits, they in turn will become that way as well. Let gentleness and kindness and respect become a part of your mutual interactions. Once this energy is introduced, miracles can occur. You will see a miracle of healing in your “problem” Indigo. The crisis can be healed if you acknowledge that it is there to teach you and to heal you as well. All that is asked, dear ones, is your co-operation and your trust as parents with your Spirit guides and angels. We are here to help!
Part II: Role Models and the Existential Crisis
In our previous channel we spoke to you about the problems of the Indigo adolescent and teen-ager, and how to cope with their existential crisis. We spoke of how the Indigo being comes to the planet to break through entrenched systems, and how, as they do this, they often provide a “mirror” for the family and the community of where dysfunction lies. In this channel we will talk further of the nature of the Existential Crisis, in the hope that this will provide further information and assistance to those of you who are parenting Indigos who have reached this stage in their lives.
A problem that is frequently encountered by parents of Indigos is that their intelligent and often gifted child suddenly loses interest in school. This loss of interest may be mild, leading to withdrawal and apathy. Or it may be intense, leading to the teen-ager dropping out of High School at the age of fifteen or sixteen, before he or she has had time to make decisions about future careers and directions. This is often traumatic for the parents, who cannot understand why a child would seem to be so uninterested in education and career opportunities, especially since the parents themselves have often had to work very hard for the same educational and career opportunities that their children seem to be throwing away.
The teen-ager may then proceed to sit at home for a while, or for a long time, with no seeming ambitions or direction in life. He or she plays music, sees friends, goes out, but does nothing “constructive” and makes no effort towards earning a living or finding a career. They just seem to drift. This can be very upsetting for parents, especially parents who are career focused and success dominated. And we have noticed, dear ones, how it is often just these kinds of parents who attract Indigos who will drop out of school and seem quite uninterested in the success path that their parents have followed with such determination.
The reasons that the Indigo follows this path are often quite simple. As Indigos they are highly intelligent and capable. They learn very fast, and have sharp and exploratory minds. School, as it is experienced now, simply bores them. It is too slow and it seems to have no purpose. To the sharp perception of the Indigo, school is just a place where they are forced to conform and to learn things that have no relevance and purpose in their lives as they see it. Indigos have already decided that they do not want to sit in offices and do boring and repetitive work, and so they see no need to be “trained” for that career path.
They are often very clear on this, and nothing will make them change their minds. If they are not allowed to follow their inclinations and quit school, they can become rebellious and angry and destructive, engaging in self-destructive behavior patterns that threaten themselves and their families. Or they may just sit around the house and seem to have no purpose or plan in life.
Please understand, dear parents, that your child is not doing this to drive you crazy. Nor are you a terrible parent who has failed in some way. What the Indigo teen-ager is crying out to all that can hear is that there is no place for them in society as it is constituted now. They do not want to join the “rat race” and become consumers of information and products. They want to live their lives as they know they should, being present in the moment and experiencing what life offers. They do want to express themselves and their talents; it is the reason for which they incarnated. But often they become so blocked with anger and misery that they become depressed and cannot find their way forward. They do not know where to turn. When they look at the traditional education and career paths they see nothing for them. And yet they cannot find alternatives. They seem paralyzed and lost. And indeed this is how many of these bright souls feel after fifteen years on the planet in the educational and economic systems in which they find themselves. And so they become depressed and anxious and seek ways of “escaping” this reality that holds nothing for them, often in alcohol and drugs.
This pattern is often most evident in the Male Indigo Teen-ager. The reason for this is that in recent years women have become increasingly empowered and spiritual, but men have not kept up in general. So, as a result, many young males are brought up in homes where there is not a strong and positive male role model. The father may be absent, either because he is always working and is not there for his children, or the parents may be divorced and the mother is the sole effective parent. Either way this does not provide a strong role model for the adolescent male at a time when he is forming his adult male behavior patterns. All that is shown to him as the standard adult macho male of western media culture, and for many Indigos this is not how they want to express their maleness. And so they are lost, feeling rebellious and having no real model on which to pattern positive behavior patterns.
But, dearest ones, we have good news for you, for the Earth is changing rapidly, and many of these changes are beneficial for your Indigo children. The Male energy on the planet is undergoing deep change this year. Men are learning to become more connected to the Earth and to see themselves as stewards and keepers of the Earth. This is what the Indigo male seeks, it is what he came here for. Men will become increasingly more caring and more involved with their communities. They will rediscover their spiritual essence, and many will become powerful teachers and role models for younger men in their communities.
As parents, dealing with the Indigo adolescent and Teen-ager in crisis, it is perhaps wise to understand that you need to be able to offer your child alternatives in education and career or work opportunities. The Indigo is here to serve and to bring change. If they become self-absorbed and isolated they will be miserable and depressed.
The best advice we can offer, dearest parents, is to involve your children in the community. Find things for them to do while they are still young that will allow them to express their powerful soul urges to service and sharing, and they will probably find their own way forward. Do not pressurize them to excel at school or college. Understand that this is not their path. Allow them to find themselves and express themselves. Allow them to be creative. Understand that every soul wishes to be independent and creative, and so does your Indigo, no matter how problematic he or she may be at this time. You can help them to re-connect with that deep inner desire to express their soul in creativity and love if you understand what they are saying to you when they refuse to accept your career options or your way of life.
In fact, if you celebrate their difference and encourage their interests, they will probably surprise you at how they blossom and open up into wonderful adventures of creativity. They are meant to be different, they are not meant to be like you. You can learn so much from them about being in the present moment, about expressing who you are and your creative passions. But this can only happen if you allow them to be who they are and to express their creative passions. If you accept them for what they are, they will accept you, and then you can begin to negotiate a way into the future together, where both of you are happy and at ease with each other.
Remember, dearest ones, that this Indigo being wants to be happy and productive and independent. He or she is just struggling to find a way to do this is a world that was not designed for them. The Indigos are helping to redesign a world that will indeed support each and every being in their quest for happiness and self-expression. You, as parents, can help with this project if you empower and enable your Indigo teen-ager to find this path for themselves. It can be done. Ask for help from the angelic realms, and know that as a family you will be guided into paths that will help you all to move past this crisis and into a place of peace and sharing with your Indigo son or daughter.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Celia Fenn is an Indigo/Crystal adult who holds MA and PhD degrees in English Literature, and has also studied Art and Music. She worked for 12 years as a University academic before switching to a career in Healing and Therapy. For the past ten years she has helped many people find their own personal healing path to wholeness and inner peace. She is the author of A Guide to Complementary Therapies in South Africa, published by Struik. In the last few years she has worked intensively with Indigo adults and teenagers, as well as children, and has developed specific programs to assist these special beings to find their path in life in peace and balance. She has also appeared on radio and television to discuss her work with Indigo and Crystal children.
Celia offers personal consultations, as well as workshops and courses with her partner Kate Spreckley. Please visit the website at http://starchildglobal.com/